I WORKED IT OUT!!! I have the CM ML120 with only one fan connected but this will work if you are using two.
I should've done some research because the advertising on the box said Aura Sync, and I would assume it was illegal to advertise such things if it weren't available.
I followed all the instructions that was given in the manual, plug cables into AIO header and CPU header, plug the other pump cable into the controller, plug the fans into the splitter which plugs into the controller, then i had to power the bloody thing too and figured out why it didn't work.
then with a little research, the thought process was I had to plug SOMETHING into the RGB header on the motherboard... but the question was what!
then after a little bit of playing around with different cables (including the 4 pin cable) plugging in and out of the controller it donned on me.... I needed a splitter that connected the pump and fans, and plug that directly into the RGB header on the motherboard.
and then Bobs your uncle. Aura sync works instantly!!!
So just to reiterate what I have done.
Coolermaster supply a 3 way splitter, which you plug the female plugs from the pump and fan(s) into using the Male-Male adapters. Then simply plug the single female end into the 3pin RGB port on your motherboard.